It is very difficult to ignore such enticing offers that scream "Join this Instant Wealth Club"
or "Make your First Million like this Washlady did" or "Young Student Earns$25,000 with
his First Website" etc. etc.  unless you are on the Seller's side of the offer. 

Ever so often there will be such scam emails that announce that you are a winner
at this or that contest or lucky draw, and lately many appeals for transfer of funds
from inheritance or people who are dead or dying. Whatever they may be, the web
has truly become a place for empty promises and proliferation of dishonesty and
wilful manipulation of the greed in humans that ends in a tragic loss of income.

However, happily, in the midst of all the gloom and unhappiness there is always
a silver lining and many more good and honest people willing to help and share
their wealth and expertise so that we may hope to succeed as well as they have.

I am neither wealthy nor an expert but have encountered many who are and, in the
process of building a team of networking folk who are willing to share and enjoy
staying in touch with each other, have set up a forum page for such a purpose.
You are thus welcome to leave me your contact email so that I may invite you to
be a participant.

I leave you with this website to start with, if you care to, and would be willing to
pay the dollar for you to begin your journey, with the rest of us, on our path to be
Financially Free...  http://bit.ly/ppmoney

Peace n blessings

icJiu
vivien
ps: For those interested to acquire a lifetime membership for a one-time
fee before it begins its monthly subscription, do goto this site, quickly..
or I am sorry if you missed it..  http://www.moremoney365.com

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They can be straight –A students, but their bedrooms look like a war zone!  Some parents throw their hands up and say: “Well, it’s their room, and if they want to live that way, so be it.”

But I’m not sure that’s the best approach.

A clean room is often a sign of respect for self and others.  And every child should be held to a certain level of neatness, even if it’s just “acceptable”.

One good approach is to set clear rules regarding cleanliness.  You might post a memo on the fridge that every Tuesday and Saturday are “Pick-up days” and nobody eats dinner until their rooms are in order, then stick to it.

Most kids won’t be as concerned about corners as you are, so don’t demand perfection.  As long as they dig out the shovel and make a serious effort on a regular basis!

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We who are encumbered by our material possessions
and financial obligations, pride, prejudices, desire for
status and recognition; are often handicapped in spirit,
and poorer than the simple at heart whose spirit is whole.

Spend a little time to read this story.. There's a lot to learn from the simple at heart.

For those of us pretty entangled with many life pressures in a
emanding society, here's an anonymous story that I pray will
help us all learn some lessons from the very simple at heart. 

I envy Kevin. My brother Kevin thinks God lives under his bed.
At least that's what I heard him say one night. He was praying
out loud in his dark bedroom, and I stopped to listen, "Are you
there, God?" he said. "Where are you? Oh, I see. Under the bed..."
I giggled softly and tiptoed off to my   own room. Kevin's unique
perspectives are often a source of amusement.

But that night something else lingered long after the humor.
I realized for the first time the very different world Kevin lives in.
He was born 30 years ago, mentally disabled as a result of difficulties
during labor. Apart from his size (he's 6-foot-2), there are few ways
in which he is an adult. He reasons and communicates with the
capabilities of a 7-year-old, and he always will. He will probably
always believe that God lives under his bed, that Santa Claus is
the one who fills the space under our tree every Christmas and
that airplanes stay up in the sky because angels carry them.

I remember wondering if Kevin realizes he is different. Is he ever
dissatisfied with his monotonous life? Up before dawn each day,
off to work at a workshop for the disabled, home to walk our
cockier spaniel, return to eat his favorite macaroni-and-cheese
for dinner, and later to bed. The only variation in the entire
scheme is laundry, when he hovers excitedly over the washing
machine like a mother with her newborn child. He does not
seem dissatisfied...

He lopes out to the bus every morning at 7:05, eager for a day
of simple work. He wrings his hands excitedly while the water
boils on the stove before dinner, and he stays up late twice a
week to gather our dirty laundry for his next day's laundry chores.

And Saturdays... oh, the bliss of Saturdays! That's the day my
Dad takes Kevin to the airport to have a soft drink, watch the
planes land, and speculate loudly on the destination of each
passenger inside. "That one's goin' to Chi-car-go!" Kevin shouts
as he claps his hands.   His anticipation is so great he can hardly
sleep on Friday nights.

And so goes his world of daily rituals and weekend field trips.
He doesn't know what it means to be discontent. His life is
simple. He will never know the entanglements of wealth or
power, and he does not care what brand of clothing he wears
or what kind of food he eats. His needs have always been met,
and he never worries that one day they may not be.

His hands are diligent. Kevin is never so happy as when he is
working. When he unloads the dishwasher or vacuums the
carpet, his heart is completely in it. He does not shrink from
a job when it is begun, and he does not leave a job until it
is finished. But when his tasks are done, Kevin knows how
to relax.

He is not obsessed with his work or the work of others..
His heart is pure. He still believes everyone tells the truth,
promises must be kept, and when you are wrong,
you apologize instead of argue.

Free from pride and unconcerned with appearances,
Kevin is not afraid to cry when he is hurt, angry or sorry.
He is always transparent, always sincere. And he trusts God.
Not confined by intellectual reasoning, when he comes to
Christ, he comes as a child. Kevin seems to know God -
to really be friends with Him in a way that is difficult for
an 'educated' person to grasp. God seems like his closest
companion.

In my moments of doubt and frustrations with my Christianity
I envy the security Kevin has in his simple faith.  It is then
that I am most willing to admit that he has some divine
knowledge that rises above my mortal questions. It is then
I realize that perhaps he is not the one with the handicap....
I am. My obligations, my fear, my pride, my circumstances -
they all become disabilities when I do not trust them to
God's care. Who knows if Kevin comprehends things I can
never learn? After all, he has spent his whole life in that
kind of innocence, praying after dark and soaking up the
goodness and love of God.

And one day, when the mysteries of heaven are opened,
and we are all amazed at how close God really is to our hearts,
I'll realize that God heard the simple prayers of a boy who
believed that God lived under his bed. Kevin won't be
surprised at all!

Let us not love with words or tongue but with
actions and in truth             -   John 3:18

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To some this blog may make you a little uncomfortable as it addresses
a subject that some people do not want to think about, let alone discuss.

However, as I am one who is looking forward to life after this one, I am
inviting you to give it some thought and comment on this delicate subject.

As a weekly 'aunt' to some young ones at church, I had set up a blog where
I placed some simple Christian teachings for them to make reference to 
and this information can be read at http://3virtues.gyxe.com .

Strangely, I had started the subject at another blog but because it went
offline I had to look for another and came across this one which has its
source in Russia so that you will notice that there are no google ads or
posting present at the usual sites which dominate the internet highway.

Instead, perhaps due to language barrier or the fact that the people are
not well-off or someone had advised them that to sell a body part like the
kidney, because everyone has two, is a lucrative way of becoming rich,
do take a look at the offers on the fringe.

Where I live it is an offence to advertise to sell any organ as there are
many unscrupulous people who will take advantage of the innocent
seller.  

Have a pleasant day and may you enjoy it as though it were your last.

icJiu (ic Jesus/joy in u)
vivien
aka auntie-V 

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All mothers wish their children to be 'normal' with attendant problems of growing years, yet happy and safe, kind, honest and "fortunate to be with friends who will not guide him towards undesirable paths.  A bonus would be if he could aspire to do some good for mankind, save many animals and be aware that there is a higher power that he has to be grateful to for his existence.

Here are typical  replies from three teenagers when asked what their relationship was with their mothers...

"Currently, my mother is angry with me over God knows what. But, that's alright. She is growing older and a little grumpier too. Time with her is too precious for me to pick a fight. I'd rather just take her out to dinner when Mother's Day comes around."

"May all teenagers rebel.  I know this sounds bad, but rebellion is a necessary evil!  My experience: I now openly hold my mom's hand in public, although, as a way-too-cool teen, I'd never even want to stand next to her. If you haven't been a bad egg, children, you'll never be an appreciative adult.  So I've reformed. I call this compensation. My mom calls it love.

"Many think it's a divine right to be spoilt by moms because we popped from their wombs. We complain when dinner is plain or laundry is not washed in time, but I have regretful friends who lost their moms to illness and observe the spirit month with lots of offerings. Why wait to show your appreciation? Everyday is Mother's Day with a simple hug or phone call.  Start now." 

Finally, to borrow a quote from Mark Twain: "My mother had a great deal of trouble with me, but I think she enjoyed it"

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In his article entitled "A Lifetime of Enjoyment", Dr. James Dobson states that parents of children between birth and two years of age can begin to introduce them to the wonderful world of music. He adds that 'the most important era, however, occurs between three and seven, when eighty percent of a child's hearing development occurs.  That's the time when parents should expose their kids systematically to an array of rhythm and song. Introduce a feel for rhythm by giving the youngster a pot and a stick or a spoon to pound. You may even want to form a small rhythm band consisting of neighbourhood children or cousins. Then, as the child gets a little older, attend band concerts and parades and recitals.  And, finally, being given formal music lessons when the child appears emotionally and physically ready to learn. For Mozart, that was about three years of age.  For mere mortals, it will be a few years later. Regardless of the timetable, be sure you introduce your children to this exciting world that they will enjoy for a lifetime.' 

Similar hobbies like art, dance and other social pasttimes are also advisable to have children start training at besides their schoolwork as once a child shows his passion for a certain hobby it could end up to be something he loves doing for life. And as the well known saying goes: "When you enjoy what you do, you do not need to work all your life!"

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It's amazing how often we blame others for the things that happen to us. And it's not just a problem with children - I know a lot of adults who can't seem to accept guilt when things go wrong. But part of growing is learning these five key principles of responsibility.
We'll call them the five A's of accepting blame.

First, admit when you do something wrong. Everyone makes bad choices and the first step in overcoming them is being honest about it.

Second, aplogise for how your transgression affected others. Make it right if you can.

Third, accept the consequences of your actions. And don't expect others to pay for your mistake.

Fourth, ask for forgiveness. Just because you've apologised, don't assume that others have forgotten how you hurt them.

And finally, alter your choices in the future. Decide now how you plan to do things differently the next time.

by Dr. Bill Maier

For the spiritually inclined, following are famous words on this subject:

Forgive them Father, for they know not what they do.

Give us today our daily bread and forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us.

Oh my Jesus, forgive us, save us from the fires of hell. Take all souls to heaven especially those most in need of thy mercy.

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Dr James Dobson writes:

We receive about 10,000 letters and phone calls every day and I want to devote the next two or three commentaries to a few of the many questions submitted by parents and grand-parents. Let's start with this one:

"My husband and I are doing far too much disciplining our kids. Is there another way to encourage them to cooperate?"

Well, a child's continual misbehaviour may reflect a need for attention. Some kids would rather be wanted for murder than not wanted at all. Try putting some fun and laughter into your relationship and see what happens. You may be surprised.

Here's another question:

"My seven-year-old son has been doing some pretty awful things to neighbourhood dogs and cats. We've tried to stop him but I wonder if there's anything more to be concerned about here."

Cruelty to animals can be a symptom of very serious emotional problems in a child, and those who do such things repeatedly are not typically just going through a phase.
It should definitely be seen as a warning sign that ought to be checked out.

I don't want to alarm you or overstate the case, but early cruelty is correlated with violent behaviour as an adult.
I'd suggest that you take your son to a psychologist or psychiatrist for evaluation and, by all means, never tolerate any sort of unkindness to animals.

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Well, as a grandparent myself and a volunteer with errant kids, besides getting them to see a 'shrink' (is this a word I can use, otherwise, pardon me) I would like to recommend sending the kids to an animal shelter or even the zoo.

I feel that every kid just emulates what they see in their growing years and if they are surrounded by other people who have somehow shown that being a bully or tough guy pays, then they would follow suit.

When surrounded by TLC and bombarded with love and kindness then there is no way the kid will want to be otherwise.

Just my two-bits. Take care.

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I have recently come across another site that advocates a system that is better than Adsense and so I signed up out of curiosity to find out what it is all about.

There is a banner that is supposed to be used so I have copied the html coding for it and am placing it on this site to see whether it works.

I did place it on my other website, where it works all right
with a banner floating on the right upper corner:

http://www.webspawner.com/users/vmark44

but it would not work at these other websites of mine:

http://iamalive.wetpaint.com

http://urlsnip.com/845502

So, now I am placing it here to see if the banner will appear.

(after saving and viewing)
O-K, I received an error message so it looks like it will not work here.

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I thought I had found several programs that looked easy enough to join and place my few dollars to generate some earnings.

However, sad to say, two of the merchant accounts have gone under investigation and although one of them that kept my dollars and did not reply to my queries, altho now up and running, is no longer one that I would recommend to anybody.

I have paid for a few lucrative sounding make money ebooks and even an automatic method for drawing cash from casinos but am a little apprehensive about applying their methods just yet since I have to set up an online account that would obviate my having to directly use my credit card.

Someone did send me five dollars a week ago for a program that I have forgotten about and I guess I need to go and ask if the items are still workable.

It would not be nice if he paid for something that is not up to his expectations and the least I should do is to give him an ebook of similar value to compensate for it.

Here is the site that may still be active:
http://www.angelfire.com/vt2/5bymillions

O-K, I did go take a look, and it works!

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Focus on the Family
Here are two different takes on Heredity and Personalities of Children.

The first, Dr. James Dobson writes...

For parents whose children have caused them great pain through rebellion and misbehaviour, recent years would have been a nightmare of conflict and disappointment for them.

A hundred years ago, if a child went bad, he was a bad child. Now, it's the fault of his parents. Admittedly, some parents do warp and twist their offspring, but there are others who did the best job they could to raise their sons and daughters properly.

Genetic studies conducted at the University of Minnesota revealed that the basic temperament of a child is largely inherited. So for those parents with rebellious teenagers, it is suggested that you take another look at the guilt you have been carrying and get rid of it.

Second, a letter to the local press, asks
Whether children should pay for the sins of their parents?

Social ills, such as student suicides and the rising divorce rate in the first five years of marriage, should not be swept under the carpet but met head on with soul-searching.

Nowadays, both parents often have to work to cope with the high cost of living. Are these parents passing the buck of parenting to their in-laws, maids and teachers?

Of what use is all the acquired wealth if one does not have the health to enjoy it, if our dear children end up as social misfits or if they contract Aids through pre-marital sex?

The writing has been on the wall for over a decade. If our politicians and parents choose to turn a blind eye, it is our children who will pay the heavy price.

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'Roots' and 'wings' are what children receive from their parents to nurture them into responsible adults. It is also what the more experienced parents and older among us can provide to those that need mentoring and guidance to get by in life.

My favorite articles on parenting are derived from Dr. James Dobson and so this section of my blog is dedicated to showcasing his many takes on how to grow individuals from a single unit into a wholesome family member.

The rest of this blog will explore the online marketer's dreams for a better life.

Focus on the Family

Hang in There, Parents

Someone once said that life is like giving a violin concert in public,and learning to play it as you go. Actually, that sounds a lot like raising kids.

It seems that being a good parent is becoming more and more difficult these days. Of course, it’s never been all that easy. For one thing, babies come into the world with no instructions, and you pretty much have to assemble them on your own.

They are also maddeningly complex, and there are no guaranteed formulas that work in every nstance. The techniques that succeed with one child can fail miserably with another. Kids get sick, they throw-up on your favourite blouse, they spill juice on the new couch, and they break windows with their throw-balls. But along the way, they also bring a lot of love, a lot of laughs and treasured memories.

I bring this up because if your are strugging along today, trying to raise your children but meeting with frustrations and hardships, I’d say, "Welcome to the club”. The world of parenting is “come as your are, learn as you go, and keep your chin up”. To those mothers and fathers who try their best to tenderly guide their children through the rough waters of childhood and love their kids the best they can, I’d say, “Give yourself a well deserved pat on the back.”

Remember, there’s no such thing as a perfect parent, or perfect kids, but your love, care and commitment will make you the best parent your kid will ever have.

The end

Marketing on the Internet

Everyday the following words are written and expressed in many different offers and advertisements to draw the reader into believing that there is a way out of the mundane life that most people live by:

“Free, Easy, Pays daily, Multiply your cash, win, instant income, profit, reward, quick earnings, financial freedom, luck on your side, etc. etc.”

More than most times, you insert your particulars in the box given and join to find out what the excitement is all about. Then you are asked to pay or upgrade to a different level before any earnings can be realized and because some similar but more lucrative sounding offer catches your eyes, you forget about the first and go on to look at the other. Sounds familiar? It happens to me all the time.

And although most promotions or ads state you need not do anything to earn, it will always say in smaller print that you need to enroll your own downline or list before anything concrete happens.

If this is what you are experiencing and you have yet to start any form of earnings, income or profit, then do spend some time with me and we will explore the various ways that a person can “start from scratch” and begin to earn or profit to recover lost expenses and save some tears and regrets.

Yesterday, I joined this very specifically directed program entitled "Profit Club".

It says that there is no cost to me and if you are interested to see how it is progressed, then come back to read all about it on this blog.

The site is very concise and provides all the means for someone like me, and you perhaps, to journey into the realm that “making-money-on-the-net” dreamers travel to realize their dreams.

Here is one of the promotion email ads provided:

“We all know that there is a LOT of money to be made from the Internet. Thousands and thousands of people each day logon to the Internet looking for their pot of gold. Are you one of them? Have you found your pot of gold? Let me help you.
I have an opportunity for you that can offer you residual income, full support and all the tools you need to succeed.

For more details, please visit http://www.profitclub.info/?r=auntieviv

Finally, quoting from the Founder and President of the $20Miracle” that I will be exploring next..

“The smartest is not the one who is quick to see through a thing, but is rather the person who sees a thing through!”

I leave you now with,

Peace, goodwill and hugs for the family,

Vivien Tan
aka
auntieviv

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